The Nixon Watch

October 21, 2014

Nixon Watch

For my thirtieth birthday I got this beautiful Nixon watch. It is a beautiful rose gold with a pale pink face that I love. To me it is classy and sleek-looking but because of the simple design I think it will be to my taste for a long time; I’m so happy with it. It costs £170 from asos, but I ordered it when there was a 25% off code which made it much better. It is the most expensive watch that I have ever owned and I wouldn’t have got it if it wasn’t my thirtieth birthday.

When I was a child I always wore a watch, but as I have got older I seem to go through stages of wearing one for a bit and then forgetting about it. But I am loving wearing one again now I have this. I think it adds something to an outfit and obviously it can be quite useful.

I have liked some of the Michael Kors watches for a while but I could never afford them; but I actually prefer the simplicity and style of the Nixon watch. I had also never heard of the Nixon brand until I came across them on asos, but now I am seeing them everywhere. They do some lovely, slightly cheaper leather-strapped one’s too. I do like this black one:

Nixon watch with leather strap

Do you have a special watch or do you have a favourite watch brand? Or do you not wear a watch at all?


Heart of Berries


For the last couple of years I’ve been getting more and more into health, and thinking about what we use and put into and on our bodies. I’ve always cared, but the more I find out, the more I want to know and do to help my family and I live long and healthy lives.

I think it probably all stemmed from when Ava was born and started eating solid food and I was suddenly responsible for feeding another human being and thinking about what I was putting into her tiny little belly and how it might affect her.

When you start to be interested in health and wellness it quickly becomes quite ovewhelming; all the different advice about what we should and shouldn’t be eating, is organic important, are saturated fats bad or not, is brown rice and pasta better for you than white; and I have read arguments for both sides of all of these. It is very hard to know what and who to trust and really I think you just have to try and do the best you can with what you have, minimise processed foods, minimise sugar, eat a variety of fresh fruit and vegetables and don’t deprive yourself of the thing you really want. I generally try to follow these things, drink lots of water, enjoy some wine, eat natural foods and get as much goodness into our diets as possible. I also take quite a few supplements to top me up with the things I think I am lacking or to try and help with a problem I have (Magnesium for migraines and to help with sleep for example).

For Ava we make sure she has a home-cooked dinner almost every night, gets lots of vegetables, plenty of water (it’s actually all she’ll drink), and as healthy snacks as possible. I am not particularly strict about unhealthier treats like chocolate or ice cream, especially if we are out or at someone’s house, especially if we are indulging too; but she still has them very rarely (hence we still have lots of her Easter eggs left!). I choose the best toddler snacks that are available (and do try to make my own healthy snacks, but it doesn’t happen often), with as few ingredients as possible, and at home try to offer healthier options.

I try to incorporate healthy bits into our life without it making things too difficult or inconvenient (especially as the boy generally can’t be bothered with me telling him how bad something is for him). I just get very worried hearing about the horrible and scary ingredients that are in a lot of our foods nowadays and the diseases that they are linked with, and I want to do the best for my family and for me. I have quite a few health issues and I want to help myself the best I can through my diet and exercise.

So, on that note, here are a few of my favourite ‘healthy things’ from the last month or so…

Coconut Oil: There are so many health benefits to Coconut Oil. I’ve used it for quite a while now; I use it as an oil to cook with, on my hands to help with eczema, as a body moisturiser, as a nappy rash cream on my daughter (it works amazingly well for this and you don’t have to worry about nasty ingredients) and for her eczema when she had it, and I ingest some every day to get the health benefits. I also put some in my lovely green smoothies. I love that I can scoop a spoonful out to put into a frying pan and rub whatever is left on the spoon into my hands and arms! My favourite is Lucy Bee’s Coconut Oil that I get from amazon.

Wheatgrass Powder: After my morning cup of warm lemon water and before my breakfast I have a shot of wheatgrass powder in water. Wheatgrass has loads of nutritonal benefits and although some people hate the taste and say it tastes like pond water, I think it’s fine, and even if it tasted awful I’d still drink it for the benefits. I have never actually had any fresh Wheatgrass juice, (I will as soon as I get the chance) which is the best kind to have as it is freshest; but for convenience and cost the powder is great. We also add the powder to our smoothies for extra goodness.

 I Quit Sugar For Life book by Sarah Wilson: I didn’t buy this book to learn how to quit sugar; but because it looked like an interesting read, with some good, simple recipes and because it’s always good to have less sugar. I love it, there’s loads of interesting bits to read, lots of great recipes of which I’ve already made quite a few (that never happens!), great healthy snack and breakfast idea’s and brilliant ways to make healthy options fit into your everyday life. We both particularly love the Chocolate Coco-nutty clusters – I have made them a few times and although I haven’t found them that easy to get right cooking-wise, when I do they are amazing and we love them as a healthy evening snack. I almost didn’t get a look in once the boy found them.

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Green Smoothies: A couple of months ago I discovered the Breville Blend-Active Personal Blender which I think is like a much cheaper version of the NutriBullet. The Breville Blender is only around £24 and it is bloody brilliant. One of the main things I love about it is that you make the smoothie in the same cup that you drink it from so all you have to wash up is the cup, its lid and the blade. It’s so easy to use and unlike my juicer (which I do love), load of different things can be thrown in to get loads of healthy stuff in there. In mine I tend to put coconut oil, wheatgrass powder, maca powder, chia seeds, flaxseed, fresh lemon juice, frozen spinach, banana, a bit of water or coconut water and sometimes a few berries if we have some. We both have smoothies a few times a week and the boy often takes his to work with him and then uses the large cup to have water in all day, which I think probably increases his water intake too!

Breville Blend-Active BlenderSource

Pilates: I have recently been going to a Pilates class at my local leisure centre, and I have been quite enjoying it as well as the aching of muscles deep inside that I didn’t know I had the next morning. At the time it doesn’t feel like you are doing a lot but I can definitely feel it the next day and I like that it feels gentle and relaxing while you are doing it. The only thing is, the class I attend is not taken too seriously and I really want to do a Pilates or Yoga class where peace, quiet and relaxation is the focus so that I can relax and unwind as well as tone my body. I am hoping to join my local gym where they have a dedicated room for Yoga and a teacher who regularly travels to India and has her own Yogi! I wouldn’t normally join an expensive gym, but it will actually cost less than two classes a week at the leisure centre and I can go to classes, and use the gym, swim and sauna. I do fancy a day of relaxing yoga, a sauna, jacuzzi, swim and maybe a chance to read a book afterwards in the cafe; sounds bloody amazing to me!

 Do you do anything in particular to stay healthy? Do you have any easy little tips that you use to add some health into your daily routines? Please tell me about them in the comments, I love stuff like this!


Mums' Days


Pampers and UNICEF '1 pack = 1 vaccine' campaign

As a new parent we have lots of firsts to look forward to; first steps, first words, first smile; and our biggest worry is that we won’t be there to experience them when they happen.

My daughter saw her first ever snow when she was just over a month old. We had inches of it and I put her in a gorgeous fluffy white snow suit. It was a very small one but it was still massive on her; her arms only came halfway down the soft puffy sleeves and she looked like a big squidgy marshmallow. It was so so cute. Her Daddy, Ava and I went out into our garden for a few minutes and took some photos, but it was far too cold to stay out for long. Another day we went out for a little bit into the snow with A’s Granny and Grandad and wrote her name in the snow. It was really lovely being out in the snow with my snuggly, warm little bundle and sharing her first ever snow with her.

A's first snowAva’s first snow

The first time Ava crawled and walked were very special. We were very lucky to both be there for both of them. The first time she crawled we were both there encouraging her across the floor and the first time she walked properly was Christmas Day!!! She had taken a couple of very tentative steps a couple of days before, and then on Christmas Day with her mummy and daddy and some more of her family there with her, and 8 days before her first birthday, she took a few proper steps. It was so emotional to see her walking for the first time and to share some of those first steps with family on such a memorable day made it even better.

Ava's first time on a beachAva’s first time on a beach

We were also both there the first time she uttered “I love Daddy” and “I love Mummy”. It was amazing hearing her say those special words, and even more incredible to share that special moment with each other. As parents, it is wonderful to experience our children’s first special moments and the memories will stay with us for a very long time. I feel so lucky as her mummy to have been there for all of Ava’s firsts and I am so grateful that she is a healthy little girl.

 Ava's first Christmas and the day she took her first stepsAva’s first Christmas and the day she took her first steps!

A healthy start in life makes all of these special first-time experiences possible; and we are very lucky that here in the UK we can expect that healthy start for our little one’s. But for many mothers and their newborn babies the reality is that they may not get the chance to enjoy these special moments. In 24 of the world’s poorest countries the threat of the deadly but entirely preventable Maternal and Newborn Tetanus still exists.

Since 2006 Pampers has worked with UNICEF, funding 300 million vaccines and eliminating the disease in 15 countries. But there are still babies in those 24 countries at risk. This year is the 9th ‘Pampers and UNICEF “1 pack = 1 vaccine”’ campaign, which allows expectant mothers to be vaccinated, protecting mums and their newborns against Maternal and Newborn Tetanus. For every view of this blog post, Pampers will donate the cost of 3 vaccines to UNICEF; so please please get sharing this post in as many places as you can. Together let’s make this my most viewed blog post ever. Let’s help save some lives and eradicate this disease. You can also help to donate even more vaccines by buying the specially marked packs of Pampers nappies for your little one.

To do even more you can watch the short video below that shows some first moments: for every view, like and share the video gets Pampers will donate a vaccine; so please watch, and like it and share it wherever you can!

Emma Bunton is also supporting this campaign for the second year running, and below is some footage of Emma’s recent trip to Madagascar; a country that has just announced its elimination of Maternal and Newborn Tetanus. Here she saw the incredible benefits of the support that this campaign has provided.

I am really happy to be involved in this important campaign and do a little something to help. I would really love and appreciate it if you could help me in getting as many vaccines as possible donated by Pampers (and you already have if you are reading this post :), by sharing this post on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest and anywhere else you can; buying the special packs of Pampers for your little one; and watching, liking and sharing the video’s above. They are such easy things to do but really worthwhile.

Pampers and UNICEF '1 pack = 1 vaccine' campaign
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Stratford-Upon-Avon Visit

September 29, 2014

P and A by the river

I was completely and utterly spoilt for my thirtieth birthday. I got thirty (THIRTY!) presents from the boy including a camera I desperately wanted but was sure I wouldn’t get. He kept it back until the very end and let me think he hadn’t bought it for me and then popped it out after I’d finished opening everything else. Actually writing that I’ve just realised I did the same thing with his playstation for his thirtieth earlier in the year! I was very snap happy for the rest of my birthday week (you get a week when you’re thirty). I was also completely spoilt by my family and friends and I think I actually got everything on my mammoth list! I celebrated my birthday with friends the weekend before, where we went for a meal and drinks and then ended up staying out really late and dancing the night away! It was perfectly unplanned and so much fun. Ava and I went for lunch with my Dad the week before and then had ice creams in the park. Then I went out for a meal with my close family on my actual birthday. I was made to feel very special and loved throughout all the celebrations and I didn’t want it all to end.

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The day after my 30th birthday we left for a few wonderful days in Stratford-Upon-Avon. Just our little family. It was exactly what we all needed. We enjoyed gorgeously sunny weather, fresh air, ice creams (the best Mr Whippy I’ve ever tasted!), running around and playing on the grass, lots of meals out, and lots of wandering around the pretty streets and by the river; watching the boats and people and swans. It was perfect.
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With the summer coming to an end and the cooler, greyer months approaching fast it’s easy to lose the motivation for staying healthy and doing exercise like we tend to have in the warmer, brighter months of summer. I know last year after losing quite a bit of weight and getting fitter over the summer I struggled to make myself keep going through the winter and ended up doing very little and hence putting a bit of weight on and feeling worse about myself again. My body also stops craving the (albeit large) healthy salads, juices and lighter meals and longs for quick, warming, often unhealthy comfort foods. When I’m cold I want to eat and so apart from the grey days lowering my mood, I also feel worse because I am eating crap.

So this September and continuing through the freezing winter months I am determined to continue with my fitness routines, eat healthily as well as start some new things to make me feel even better mentally and physically.

Legacy Sportswear have set me a challenge to set four goals to try and improve my way of life and be the best version of me over the next month, which is exactly what I need as the cold, dull days start to greet us with their presence (winter is lovely in England!). So here are my health and fitness goals for the Legacy Challenge:

1. Attend a fitness class once a week. I really want to try a few new things; yoga, pilates and dance are all things I want to try and so this week I am going to start with Pilates at my local leisure centre. I want to start going to classes rather than just exercising at home so that I can make sure I am doing it properly, but more importantly for me to get some time out on my own once a week without my daughter, so that I can have some time for myself and not have to contend with a 2 year old clambering all over me whilst attempting to do a handstand. I have been intending to start going to classes for a while now, so this challenge with Legacy is just the push I need.

2. Yoga every damn day. Yoga again; I am determined to find some zen in my life! There is a hashtag on Instagram #YogaEveryDamnDay to inspire people to keep their yoga practice up and I love looking at everybody’s beautiful poses that I dream of being able to do one day. I find it hard to keep something up when I am not good at it straight away, so this is a mental challenge more than a physical one. I want to practice some yoga every day, even if it is just a few minutes trying one pose. I want to increase my flexibility, tone by body and my core, and relax my mind. And I really really really want to be able to do a perfect handstand.

3. Use my Acupressure mat every evening before bed. An acupressure mat is for relaxation and increased wellbeing. It can improve circulation, increase energy levels, relieve neck and back pain, reduce stress and anxiety, improve sleep and relieve insomnia and improve skin complexion. Sounds magic huh? All of these things I need help with so spending at least ten minutes each night before bed on my mat is definitely a sensible idea. Even if all it does is help me to relax before bed then it is a positive change that could make a big difference to my life. I really struggle to get to sleep and I also suffer from migraines and I really feel this could help. Since I got my mat for my 30th birthday almost two months ago I have used it twice; mainly because I have kept it down the side of a chair and always forget to get it out. So I am determined to put it somewhere I will remember to use it or get in such a routine with it before bed that I would never forget. I used it last night and I will definitely be dragging it out tonight.

4. Drink lots of water consistently. I am generally quite good at drinking water; it is pretty much all I drink apart from hot drinks and wine. But a lot of days I don’t drink enough throughout the day and I am very inconsistent with drinking plenty all day errrday. Drinking lots of water makes me feel much better and it helps keep my skin clearer, which is a big thing for me at the moment.

So they are my challenges for the next month and hopefully beyond! Wish me luck!

Legacy is kindly offering my readers a 30% discount on all of their clothing, so get browsing here. Use the code birdsandlilies30 at the checkout. I love the bright royal blue sports bra and the training vest in neon pink.


This post was written in collaboration with Legacy Sportswear, but all thoughts and ideas are my own.


ilumi gluten free food

ilumi provide the widest range of naturally gluten-free prepared meals on the market. They are also nut and milk free and contain all locally sourced ingredients.

ilumi’s mission is to create delicious, colourful, deeply flavoursome foods that their customers can trust, to make them accessible and convenient, and to spread the word about eating for wellness to the wider community.

We were asked to try an evening meal from ilumi that was delivered to us at home. We chose to try the Mediterranean menu from the range.

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You can either microwave or cook each meal on the hob so it only takes a few minutes to prepare which means they are super convenient and quick and easy. They are great for when you don’t have much energy or time to prepare a healthy meal but you don’t want to resort to an ready meal full of bad ingredients.

We tried:
Pea Pancetta and Mint Soup
Tomato and Red Pepper Soup
Basil and Garlic Chicken Meatballs in Tomato Sauce
Mediterranean Style Rice with Pork and Chorizo
Peppery Tuscan Style Beef Stew
Spanish Style Fish Stew
White Long Grain Rice

Overall we thought the meals were really nice, especially for the ease and the fact that they are gluten, nut and milk free. We both liked the Mediterranean Style Rice with Pork and Chorizo best; it had lots of flavour and plenty of meat in it. The boy didn’t really like the fish stew (I thought it was pretty fishy but ok) and the beef stew was very peppery but I think that was just a matter of taste. The boy was very surprised at the quality of beef in the stew; he said it was very good. The soups were also nice and you could definitely taste the mint in the Pea Pancetta and Mint Soup which I was surprised and pleased about. All the meals had plenty of taste and we enjoyed them.

The main courses are mostly £2.75 or £3.75 each and the rice is £1 (with free delivery in the UK) which we both thought was very good value for a convenient, healthy meal, and especially if you are gluten-free and find it hard to find healthy easy meal options. For us the gluten-free aspect was just a bonus but ilumi is a great option if you are gluten-intolerant.

All of the meals come in space-saving pouches which means they don’t need refrigeration; so they are really handy to have in the house for when you need something quick to eat.

ilumi gluten free

ilumi also do meal plans for either 7, 14 or 28 days where you get your three meals a day plus snacks delivered to you and you get to choose which meals you would like from the options. I think this is a great idea for someone who wants to see whether they might be affected by gluten and wants to try being gluten-free for a week or so but doesn’t want to have to read packets and try to work out what they can and can’t have for every meal. The meal plans start at £44.99 for 7 days.

Going gluten-free is believed to lead to a reduction in bloating, clearer complexion and increased energy so it is worth a try if you think you might be affected by it, and apparently that’s quite a few of us; 1 in 5 of the UK population is actively avoiding gluten.

Would I buy it myself? Yes, if I was gluten-free or wanted to try being gluten-free for a period of time to see if I felt better.

We were sent an evening meal to try from ilumi, but all thoughts and opinions are mine or the boy’s.

Family Fever



September 11, 2014


Forget your troubles, come on, get happy!
Here’s five things that are making me happy this week….

1. The boy still has four more days left before he goes back to work after over two weeks off! We’re determined to make the most of them.

2. We have a new Dyson and I am in love! Yes, with a hoover (sorry I mean vacuum cleaner). It’s cordless, it’s called an Animal, it’s purple, and I can hoover the cat hairs off the chairs and the cobwebs off the walls really easily.

3. I’ve started exercising pretty consistently again.

4. I think I’ve found my hairstylist for my wedding. Squeeeeeee!

5. My daughter is bloody amazing and I laugh lots every day because of her.

What’s making you happy this week?


Ava: 32 Months

September 10, 2014

Ava 32 Months

Loves: Chocolate, chocolate, chocolate, ice-cream, ice-cream, ice-cream, her Daddy doing bench presses with her, putting her toys on top of our cat Molly (luckily Molly is currently enjoying this too), being outside/on the beach/in the garden and never coming in, this awful cartoon called ‘Littlest Pet Shop’ that is like, totally awesome dude and I just got so many likes on this photo and you should totally like just be yourself; and is now banned. Singing (I use that term loosely) to Frozen, watching Frozen, looking at pictures of Frozen, anything Frozen. Telling me there is a snake/spider somewhere (and I can’t help but check that there isn’t), drawing, her Granny and Grandma (her Father and I are COMPLETELY ignored if either of them are there).

Dislikes: Me asking her to do anything, going inside after playing outside, fruit (not that she’ll try any).

Favourite foods: Chocolate, ice-cream, chocolate ice-cream, Daddy’s butternut squash risotto, mummy’s Thai red curry bolognaise from the I Quit Sugar for Life book (which I bloody love by the way), still pâté sandwiches, yorkshire puddings, carrots, gravy, humous, anything you can dip in, bread.

Favourite Toy: An elephant cuddly toy called Ellie. He is a character from The Jungle Book (which we watched together for the first time the other day) and he is actually mine (or he was) from when I was young. He came from Florida when I was on holiday there. She also still really loves the pull-along doggy we bought her for Christmas. He recently took a trip to the park and went in the sandpit where his lead got rather filthy and he made friends with two other little girls who cried when they couldn’t take him home.

Favourite book: Ava likes spending time reading by herself at the moment (i.e looking through and making up the words), and it’s so cute to see. She has rediscovered her love for the weird one that is Pig in Love, and now knows most of the words herself (I’m determined to get it on camera). She is also obsessed with this hardback book of ‘Jake and the Neverland Pirates’ that comes with little figurines of the characters and a pull-out playmat.

Challenges this month: Trying to get her to answer me when I speak to her. She is loving ignoring me as much as possible at the moment, which I HATE. I think she gets it from her Dad; but she can bloody well un-get it. We left potty training for a bit after she kept peeing everywhere but the potty, and then left it a bit longer because we were going away so it’s now time to try it again. She’s actually in town with her Daddy as I write this buying some more big girl knickers (time to myself; WAHOOOOOOOO!!!). She’s generally quite good at the moment; she has a lot of mardies and would watch tv all day if she could but generally she’s very lovely, sweet and loving.

Best bits: Our little family trip to Stratford-Upon-Avon at the end of July; she loved playing in the hotel room, being outside lots and having big grassy areas to run around on, eating ice-creams, staying up late and having mummy and daddy all to herself with no housework or other mundanities to distract us.



I hate cleaning, but I LOVE that satisfying feeling of having cleaned. There’s nothing better than knowing a room is really clean and sparkly and you don’t have to bother with it for another few months. I’m joking don’t worry. I clean at least once a month. I also love finding quicker ways to do things; that make my life a bit easier and make the time I have to spend cleaning a bit shorter. I want to be playing with my daughter or reading super important tweets on Twitter, not sweeping the kitchen floor again.

With the summer starting to come to an end (sorry, but it’s true) you might be thinking about doing a big house clean (an Autumn clean?) at the same time as you begin to put all those pretty summery clothes away (*sob*). If so, I have a few tips for you that I have collected since having my own home that will hopefully make your life a bit easier, or cleaner at least.

Top Tips for a Sparkling Home

- Use rubber gloves to remove cat and dog hairs from settees, curtains, cushions and anywhere else you find them. Except for the actual cat or dog; they’re supposed to be there. Put the rubber gloves on and wipe over the hairs.

-Keep cleaning products where you need them, not just in one place. So that if you do decide to spontaneously clean the bathroom you don’t have to go down to the kitchen to get everything you need where you suddenly decide you must have a cup of tea, the toddler wants a snack, so does the cat and so does the woman across the roads best friends son and you completely ‘forget’ about cleaning the bathroom.

- Keep the bin bag roll in the bin beneath the bag that is being used so that you can quickly put in a new bag once you’ve emptied it. Particularly any upstairs bins.

- Keep old toothbrushes to clean around taps and to get to all the tight little bits around sinks and plugholes.


- Use an old sock or two as a duster for things like the bannister or a blind – put it on your hand and wipe over each part so that you can get at all the little bits easily.

- If you break a glass (one of my many skills), get a piece of bread and put it over the area and it will pick up the little pieces.

- Vinegar and newspaper works really well for cleaning mirrors and windows. As long as you haven’t been putting all of your newspapers in the recycling bin as soon as you got them. Then it doesn’t work so well.

- Cleaning wipes (or baby wipes!) are good for doing a quick clean in between the deep cleans or when your relatives/friends (delete as appropriate) have just invited themselves round and you haven’t cleaned for months days. Keep some in the kitchen and some in the bathroom, so that you can just pretend you’re taking a long time in the loo. Better that than a dirty bathroom, am I right?

- Apple cider vinegar is great to clean ev-ery-thing. I use it diluted with water instead of a shop-bought anti-bacterial cleaner to clean all surfaces, the highchair, the floor, potty-training accidents; everything AND the kitchen sink. Apple cider vinegar is non-toxic, anti-bacterial and anti-fungal so it’s perfect for cleaning. I also use it to wash vegetables, for cleaning windows, as fabric conditioner, and to neutralise smells. Oh and I also sometimes drink it. But that’s a whole other story blog post.

- Get yourself a lightweight hoover so that you can quickly hoover a few times a week and jobs like hoovering the stairs don’t seem like such a mammoth task; use it in between doing a full hoover once a week or so if you need to. An even better idea is to get a cordless one to make it even easier for yourself. The Dyson Animal Cordless Vacuum Cleaner looks totally up my (lazy) street. It’s apparently got great suction (which is always good), it is designed to pick up fine dust, it’s cordless, and it comes with a mini motorised tool good for removing hair and dirt from upholstery (no rubber gloves required).


I need this so that I can chase the dust bunnies (and the cats) around the house and up on my high ceilings (not the cats) where I tend to ignore the dust winking at me because I can’t reach. Also, I love love love the thought of not having to unplug my hoover from downstairs halfway up the stairs and then replug it in upstairs. Heaven. John Lewis have £50 off the Dyson Animal Cordless Vacuum Cleaner until 9th September.

- An extra tip from my ‘worn-out-from-fixing-and-cleaning-the-oven-today’ other half: use one of those scrapey things that are to remove paint from glass to clean the oven door; instead of scrubbing and scrubbing at it you just sit there and scrape it off (his words!).



And if you are struggling to find the motivation to get started with your cleaning, remember: housework burns lots of calories! So get cleaning…. and then have a big glass of wine to congratulate yourself for all that hard work!

Have you got any super cleaning tips to make all of our lives that little bit easier? Please share in the comments; I need to know!

P.S My fiance said this must have been hard for me to write because he does all the cleaning. On another note, that wedding that I’ve been talking about on here might not be happening after all FYI.

This post was sponsored by John Lewis; but all thoughts, opinions and cleaning tips are my own, or my ex-fiance’s ;)


Turning 30

August 10, 2014

30th Birthday

Last week I turned the big 3-0. Thirty. Dirty thirty. Flirty thirty. Everyone always seems to dread turning 30 and I kind of did as well. But the closer I got to it the more excited and grateful I got. We are lucky to be getting older, even if we are all scared of getting wrinklier and droopier. But if we don’t age there’s only one alternative. I know some people who haven’t made it this far in life so I am bloody grateful to be here enjoying life and getting older.

Obviously ageing in our bodies and our minds can be a potentially scary thing, especially for women I think. But really, I wish we could just embrace ageing and not see it as a negative thing. I think it’s hard with society nowadays (clearly I am old to say things like that!) when so much emphasis is put on the quest for eternal youth and celebrities all over the place appear to defy ageing. We do all want to look younger but we shouldn’t let it bother us as much as we do. I think it’s great that whilst there are all these beautiful young seemingly perfect stars making us feel bad about our looks, that there are lots of respectable, classy, successful older women like Helen Mirren who look amazing; who show us that you don’t have to look old and wrinkly or go into hiding or wear bad clothes when you are older; who show us that ageing doesn’t have to be a bad thing and we don’t have to be young to look beautiful and fit and that we can still be inspirational and fun when we’re older.

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The older I’ve got the more I have started to care about my health and I believe being healthy and fit plays a big part in growing older beautifully and keeping our bodies looking fit and healthy and keeping our minds young as much as possible. Drinking lots of water, moving our bodies, eating good clean foods that nourish our bodies, getting outdoors and enjoying some sunshine are more important to ageing gracefully and feeling good about ourselves than trying to stay forever young with lotions and magical potions and surgery of the plastic variety.

I also quite like being older; I don’t want to be 21 anymore. I like the thought of being 30, being a mother, getting married (next year) and being a grown up. I feel like I’m officially an adult now and I’m ok with that.

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I think my thirties are going to be amazing; I’m getting married, will hopefully be lucky enough to have more children; I’ll see Ava starting school, we’ll move house and more and more people around me will start to have children. I plan to only get fitter and healthier rather than less so; increase my confidence in different ways, learn to play the piano, travel and practice yoga. That all sounds pretty bloody amazing to me. It feels like a new chapter with lots of new experiences to come. I’m excited!

How did you feel about turning 30 or how do you feel if you’re not that old yet?!

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